Recently, a regular forum writer wrote to a local newspaper and opined that the authorities should consider caning cat abusers. While I am totally against people abusing animals such as cat and dogs who can be so lovable pets, I for one do not advocate caning as a means of punishing them. Caning is barbaric and the scars that will left on the buttocks of the abusers will wound them for life as it will not only make them bitter but their hatred for animals will grow bigger.
Caning would have drastic effects on a person – both mentally and physically. On the mental part, humiliation is inevitable.
Instead of meeting out such brutal punishment like caning, we must prove to the abusers how doting cats and dogs as pets can be. Animals abusers could be having psychological issues that go untreated or because they want to have ‘power’ over someone or something weaker than them.
Every morning when I go to church to pray, two cute cats will sit on the floor or on cars and meow cutely away. You can’t help but play with them or pat them on their head and stroke their fur. They know when you give love to them as they will give a cute ‘meow’ reply.
Let us examine closer why people abuse animals.
A lot of these people want to have control over others. They will hurt an animal because they think this means they have total control of the animal. Or they may hurt the animal to control another person. For example, a husband might hurt the family’s pet to show his wife what he could do to her if she doesn’t obey his commands. Someone else might make his dog kill other dogs because he thinks that makes him powerful. A father could smack a cat unmercifully because he wants to show his badly-behaved son that he could do likewise to his kid as his means of instilling discipline.
Others simply enjoy pain and violence. Those who enjoy violence might also destroy inanimate objects as well as animals and people.
Clearly, people in this group suffer from serious, psychological problems that will probably not go away on their own. They often need the help of licensed professional such as a psychologist. We are not 100% sure why people become like this—most are probably born with their problems, but others can get their problems from brain damage, poisonous environments, or by being treated badly themselves. Without help, the psychological problems these people have can haunt them for their whole lives.
So as a community, we can do our part by getting a trusted friend or someone that is very close to the abuser to encourage him/her to seek professional help.
RAYMOND ANTHONY FERNANDO
PROFILE OF THE WRITER
Raymond Anthony Fernando is a motivational speaker, poet, author, trainer, songwriter, freelance television actor, ghostwriter, media celebrity, regular newspaper forum page writer and an advocate for the mentally ill.
He is a volunteer with the Institute of Mental Health. The author of 32 books was married to Doris Lau Siew Lang, herself an author of 8 books. Doris was called to the Lord in April 2014. This Model Caregiver 2007 and Mental Health Champion 2010, who is born on Valentine’s Day, has contributed 31 years of service to the public sector, 15 years of experience in public relations work, and received several awards and commendations from government organisations.
Raymond attributes his success to his beloved wife, Doris, who has always been his greatest inspiration.